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As my business is evolving, I'm finding myself confronted with the same personalities that I found when I first started, doubters.
Starting a business is hard (wah wah), but if you have a clear vision and a clear path to make that vision a reality, don't let anyone stop you. The worst that can happen is not failure, the worst that can happen is always looking back and thinking, "What if I hadn't listened to the doubters?"
Several times in the course of my business I have veered from my original vision because I listened to my doubters. Do you know what happened? My competitors beat me to the punch. Turned out my vision was correct, but I insisted on letting the negative hold me back.
See if this sounds familiar. When I (hypothetically) hover above my business in order to look down and see the whole picture, I don't see my to-do list for the day, month or even year. I see my to-do list for the life of my business. I see my business as it will look in 10 years, whether I own it at that point or not. Then, I work backwards from there...down to the pen sitting on the desk of the assistant answering the phone and how that pen will be paid for. I truly believe that this is the kind of foresight that it takes to create a successful business. And, I believe that you either have the ability to see the 'big picture' or you don't. I'll tell you in a few years which group I fall into! But, there's only one way to find out.
Often times, it's incredibly difficult to get others to trust in your vision. But, I'm finding this is crucial. Anyone who is not working with you in achieving that vision, is working against you. They're dead weight. I don't have time to explain everyday why processes are so important or why we're working on things that might not look profitable today. They don't have to see the vision themselves or understand it, but they do have to trust the person driving that vision.
This goes for family and friends, too, by the way. If family and friends don't support your vision, I'd suggest not trying to hold them down and give them involuntary Lasik! Change the subject and move on. Surround yourself with people who do support your vision.
Why am I sharing this with you? Because I've recently come to the realization that my biggest obstacles lie in me putting too much faith in my doubters and not enough faith in my vision. I can understand and forgive my doubters for doubting, but I cannot forgive myself for letting them guide my course.
All this said, here's my mantra for the week: Never lose sight of your vision. Write it out. Seek advice. Plot the path to get there. Put the people in place with the experience to help you get there. And, move forward like your life depends on it ignoring the nay sayers.
Now, go get it!
